The most difficult part of success is the ** courage ** you need to succeed - if you think: "I'm afraid to talk with people." Or "I'm a loser, nobody in their right mind would follow." Or "I could never do what he / she is .." Or "I'm afraid, with people talking on the phone ..."
When I began in my admiration of the Internet on the money that needs to be done and I am sure that if someone - no, a different person to cope with, then why could not I? - I'm not stupid, and I have my first company, but it was not as easy as all the world. Indeed, it was pretty difficult. I have two years of my life with reading, learning and the internalization of all the writings of the great minds in Internet marketing, conventional and self-help experts. I read the books by Napoleon Hill, Zig Ziglar, Mark Yarnell (which is now a partner in the mine), Leo Clements, John Milton Fogg, Richard Poe, etc. The problem is that I the whole time, reading and study fear ... straight out and do it.
But a book that changed my life, for better psycho-spiritual need Cybernetics 2000 by Maxwell Maltz Foundation, and Bobbe been that the entire book is written for the person who suffers from a poor image of self-confidence. . the person who the hearing in relation to his head, like "I'm not good enough", "Mama was right, I can not do anything", and with negative thoughts to ourselves, the reasons for which we can not quit smoking or lose weight, by our inability to a relationship successful, and the list is long .. The most important thing is that I have two years of research seriously, my soul, * the * fear started two years ago, and two years * afraid of success, the fear that I do not deserve to be rich and successful ..
And then I fell to the process known as the CRAFT Process ...
C.ancel
R.eplace
A.ffirm
F.ocus
T.rain
Step 1: Cancel Negative Thoughts ...
Walk along your supermarket, there is a magazine with a super-title, or in the muscles, and you say: "I'm not sexy, girls like you, that all men .. I'm not somebody with my leg flanges. If you are about the negative thoughts CANCEL say loud! If you're saying, according to your subconscious mind, he wants to not only internally, externally, but also, and it is more than twice as powerful!
Step 2: Replace the negative with a positive ...
John Milton Fogg compared our minds in a balance, one thing - your beliefs are the beliefs that you about themselves, it is almost a synonym for the self-image, now both sides of the scale are your positive beliefs: "I am a great driver, "or" I am good at my work ", etc.. on the other side are your thoughts are negative thoughts that say the opposite of your positive ...
We live in a pessimistic society where 98% of our habits of belief outweigh the negative .. to change, we need to add the positive ... Beginning increase .. and that is what the claims do .. ask someone who is successful when using statements and 99.998% say yes - betchya you!
Let us all together, do you have a magazine with a sexy top, your first answer "I never been so sexy, not a man that he never wants me .." or "I could never like a girl with my body" then stop, say "Cancel" and means "I am beautiful / beautiful, in many respects, and I have many qualities that every man / woman does not have a woman / man .. and I'm sexy .. "
Step 3: Living Your new pictures for you!
It really is a new important step in - but this time your claim on a card and display them anywhere you can be sure they see often .. eg. Bathroom mirror, car window, desk, etc. .. Repeat your statements every time when you're doing something, is part of your daily routine, for instance, if you clean your teeth, or go into a room or a door to open. .. so the claim to a rapid and unimpeded access of the idea, and it is quite natural and automatic ...
Step 4: Focus on an image for itself a success!
In my network of business .. I write to myself at least once a week if I do not write .. I go to myself verbally .. although I usually outdoors in nature .. Personally I also like the Stars look to move and my new car ... but the choice of method and location that suits you best ...
Is it really the work ... Since your subconscious can not tell the difference between a real experience, and that is completely imaginary, so that the visual you are most likely your subconscious will accept! All the senses ... you see how a great coach and manager, a great orator, and the web, you see the world in the language that you do not talk to - all your dreams .. See the performance objective by objective and accurate!
Step 5: You train a permanent change!
Your goal in May to try something new .. like dancing or painting. You think that May "I can not dance" or "I'm not an artist" and the steps above the craft process to speak to the negative thoughts, but no matter how a positive image of you in relation to a goal or a challenge, after the goal, you must use the applications. May you to the dance lessons ...
Now that you believe that you can dance, you need to log on to leave, even for the painting, you must May the art of the class. Networking - May you need a course on leadership, or the building of relationships, in the sense of something while Dale Carnegie ( "How to Win Friends and Influence People")
In a word Step 5 CRAFT is in the process the image to the problems better, give them the courage to succeed "
But be patient - "Rome was not built in a day and is on average between 4-6 weeks to your new image of themselves bold step forward. Do not be discouraged, if you wish, it is sufficient it will be you!
Finally, I would say that for me the hardest and most difficult part for the construction of my business was in this first step - I took two years to work, the courage to complete this step, but if I did .. the rest is easier, and now I take my success, and sometimes - just to keep him ...
And remember ...
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step ..." - Unknown from me
and is therefore compatible with network marketing, and everything else in life ...
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
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